~why Am I So Selfish? ~ Comments

The guilt is always thrown back onto the one who is trying to help. All you can be is firm but kind, and know you have done all you can. Love and hugs Ernestine XXX

It only ever occurrs to the unselfish that they may be being selfish. That aside, this is a touching and poignant piece (well-written goes without saying of course) and thank you for posting.

I don't think you're selfish, Mary, I think you have a lovely heart.

yuor not being selfish, you don`t control her, you can only be thier for her.

UMM! MARY THE CORRECT SPELLING IS SELFLESS