What Is Marriage Poem by amos nyakundi

The truth is Marriage Is Not for the Stubborn, Difficult, or Disrespectful Woman.
Truth
You can marry money.
You can marry beauty.
You can marry brains.
You can marry potential.

But if she's stubborn, difficult, and disrespectful?
You didn't marry a partner—you married a problem.

Because marriage doesn't collapse from outside enemies.
It collapses when the war lives in your house.
Simple rules
1. Stubborn Women Don't grow
You're not leading a wife. You're babysitting a rebel in designer heels.

2. Difficult Women Drain you and your soul.
3. Disrespect Is the Death of Masculinity. A man can survive mistakes. He can survive failure.
He can survive struggle. But he cannot survive constant disrespect.

4. A Marriage Without Honor Is Just a Contract. A stubborn woman won't bend.A difficult woman won't adapt.
A disrespectful woman won't bend

Marriage is not for the stubborn, difficult, or disrespectful woman.

Not for the one who: Argues for sport, Treats correction as an insult and Confuses dishonor with independence

Because a man doesn't need perfection.
He needs peace.
He needs respect.
He needs a woman who multiplies his leadership instead of mocking it.
So ladies—if submission feels like slavery, and respect feels optional?
Don't get married.