The reason you can change things for the better or worse is because they did not happen in the ‘past' and will not happen in the ‘future—they happened now, in the ever expanding perpetual present.
You can make up for things that you've done, you can lose weight that you've gained, you can apologize for hurts that you've caused, because you're still connected to them…in the present moment, not in some isolated disconnected ‘timeframe' that we mistakenly refer to as the ‘future' or ‘past.'
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