Tom lost the final but not to me.
Ram suffered loss but not from me.
Jane got a divorce, me not the cause.
So I could see those through their eyes.
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The question isn't were you the cause.. The question is could you have done anything to prevent it? If so and you did nothing then your as much at fault. Sometimes inaction is worse then causing the existing problems.
if we are involved, we may not think neutrally. From one angle what you have written is true...and the third line is very funny...Shamygam chemttiar Sir........