when it comes to love
I often reflect on Rumi’s love poem: 
	“The minute I heard my first love story, 
	I started looking for you, not knowing
	how blind that was.
	Lovers don't finally meet somewhere, 
	they're in each other all along.”
and, then, there is Tennyson’s oft-quoted line: 
	“Tis better to have loved and lost 
	than never to have loved at all.”
which reminds me of a woman of relatively high society
        I recently met in LA
as we sat on her luxurious living room sofa sipping tea –
with downcast eyes – she said to me: 
	“I’ve never really loved anyone, you know, with
	the kind of love you read about and see in movies.
	I don’t know why, but true love seems to elude me. 
	But yet, I still seek love - and I yearn to be loved.”
her voice, lips and eyes held hints of sadness
an inner turmoil perhaps bordering on madness
Her words gave me pause 
pause to meditate about loving and being in love
pause to consider the secrets of love
when in high school and afraid to dance
I remember hearing Frank Sinatra sing: 
“Love is a Many Splendored Thing”
these lyrics stirred my heart during a new romance
while sitting in my car looking into Judy’s light blue eyes 
I turned up the radio and sang along with Frank: 
	“Love is a many splendored thing
	It’s the April rose that only grows
	In the early Spring
	Love is nature’s way of giving
	A reason to be living
	The golden crown that makes a man a king
	“Once on a high and windy hill
	In the morning mist two lovers kissed
	and the world stood still
	Then your fingers touched my silent heart
	and taught it how to sing
	Yes, true love’s a many splendored thing”
what is love – is it fulfilling one’s defined passion during the journey –
     is it a fleeting fantasy – a mirage that evaporates upon
     reaching its destination – a superb source of Madison Avenue revenue – 
     sublimation of primal energies into lustful synergies 
             is love a ruse of the Muse to abuse
like loving a particular turn of phrase – an unforgettable melody – a dream – 
     a cliché such as “love at first sight” – or, “love of awakening to embrace 
     the wonder of living another day”
I remember a time, when I was in pain - and I became objectively curious – 
     for pain, I philosophized, may only be felt while we are alive – therefore, 
     pain serves as an affirmation of our living manifestation
Imagine – imagine being so deeply in love that it is painful
through the pain - I saw and felt a profound beauty    	surrounding me 
beauty imbued with love flowing through every facet of 	this bewildering creation
so now – when asked about love  
I feel I have gathered some wisdom 
for love is “a many splendored thing” 
limited only by our imagination                
This poem has not been translated into any other language yet.
I would like to translate this poem