Fearing The Risk Of Love Comments

WANTING YOUR LOVE, REACHING OUT SLOWLY, HESITANTLY - When a person has doubts about self or that other person over there, this is probably the best approach because it cuts down the middle of two dangerous actions. One is surrendering completely despite one's doubts; the other, running away because the fear takes over. But dealing with this crisis is inevitable regardless of age. I hope this 19-year-old found a satisfactory modus operandi for herself, B-U-T if she didn't and her heart was broken - she will recover, we all do, we may need help - a parent, a friend, a therapist, a cat, chocolate, writing a poem, you get the point. That's the thing that makes ROMANTIC LOVE, the invention of western poets really, so dangerous and so wonderful. If you want to play it safe and avoid heart-break and heart-recovery, get an arranged marriage. But the wonder of ROMANCE is so, so, so enticing!