Build Up Your Spouse Poem by Doreenda Nikoi Kotei

SPEAK into your man!
He is the God figure in your family,
Men adore, cherish and are moved by your respect for them,
Honour him and show him deep reverence every second of his life!
Bless him until you see him shine brightly and gloriously as the morning sunrise!

Show LOVE to your woman!
Make her your pride and priceless jewel,
Women give out their very best to who fully appreciate them!
Compliment her, Praise her sacrifices, appreciate every efforts she expends to make you better.
Express you unfailing love to your queen and she will climb to heights beyond her capacity!

HELP your man!
Let him know that you've got his back all the time,
Help him to accomplish and overcome every mountain before him,
Fight together with him, build him his confidence and self image again,
Pull him up when he falls and stand with him and see the tables turn in your favour!

SHARE with your woman!
Stick with her through the toughs and thins,
Discuss issues, address problems and plan the future together in wisdom,
Don't hide important things from her and expect her to understand,
Be her shoulder for her head and she will be the hand to dry your very tears tomorrow!

GROW UP with your man!
Forgive him, cover up his mess, and overlook his mistakes,
Make life together in the hard and good times,
Set examples, act maturely and be legends in the eyes of your children,
Make him your priority and churn out the best of him for the sake of your children and your generations to come!

DOREENDA NIKOI KOTEI